Sex and Social Media
Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, and think about it, but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty just like you. We get busy, make excuses, or don’t think about it. Ready to change that?
We get busy, and forget to take time to explore ourselves, our body, our vessel. Guess what! It’s free, fun, and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first, the happier we are to connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, work who usually talk us into their own beliefs, ideas and ways of life. Is that you? Who are you and what do you want? I love to teach back to basics and what life is really about. We are all here from an orgasm so lets talk about it. Sex is so taboo we are getting shadow banned, flagged, removed and the SESTA FOSTA law is making our lives and so many others more scary and harmful. Do I give up and let the conservatives WIN? NO I will keep talking, teaching and speaking about SEX. I speak my truth and I am in the best city with a sexy vengeance.
Have you heard of FOSTA/SESTA? You heard of Backpage and Craigslist right? The past 10 years I advertised on Backpage & Craigslist (well I used to) since Trump signed The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) are the U.S. Senate and House bills that as the FOSTA-SESTA package became law on April 11, 2018. The bill sounds great to remove sex trafficking but there’s always a positive side of sex and that includes myself.
There are always 2 sides to a story and conservatives would love to shut down anything sex related. They are doing a wonderful job by Trump signing this bill earlier this year. Were you a Backpage.com fan or checked out ads on Craigslist. I started marketing my Ebyresa striptease lap dance business on both of these platforms about 10 years ago. I am a consenting adult who advertised workshops, classes and events for women to learn dance moves, confidence skills and empowerment to love themselves and learn who they are. Are you ready to learn who you are without the guilt and shame of family, religion, politics, work or friends. Who are you? What do you want in your life right now? These are 2 hard and scary ideas and questions to think of. Would you lose your family, your faith, your friends, your status if you decided to be you? It was a hard decision for me to make but in my heart, passion and soul this is me.
Remember if nothing changes, nothing changes. I have always spoken my truth and now I have a platform online to speak to more people! These 2 amazing platforms was a way for me to build my business and get noticed on the first page of google. It took a lot of time, commitment, persistence and consistent copy and pasting :) It was a great way to advertise for free and build relationships and clients through a safer, quicker outlet and build a real business out of it. Over the years I was flagged or my ads were removed.
When it first happened I did not understand why someone would flag me. Years later I realized religion is powered by money and control. I wasn’t going to let that stop me. I would post another ad and worked and thought of many different angles to advertise online to grow my business. Many other people who are in the sex industry and or any kind of business relied on these 2 helpful websites to grow their brand and business. It was a great feeling to finally speak our truth, a way for people to find us online and a way to build a prosperous business through a free outlet. I kept on advertising on these sites and enjoying the outcome. From there Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler and many other online platforms came into play. It was a way for myself and many others to build a social media presence for ourselves and many others. We built our lives, businesses, families, friends by these safe new exciting platforms.
Since this bill passed in April many of us have lost our incomes, our websites, our social media pages and most important online reviews and blacklist websites to keep us safe.. I am still working and posting on Instagram and syncing it to Facebook and Twitter. I am shadow banned and not sure who can find me. With all my hard work all my social media pages can disappear any moment. Not a safe fun feeling when this is my livelihood and passion. This bill is trying to keep anyone who is speaking about sex behind the scenes on all these sites. If we get enough flags on these applications we will get removed or blocked by advertising on IG or FB. How do we move forward if no one can find us? Do I go back to basics and pass out business cards, knock on doors and hope for the best?
I am ready to be global and would love to speak all over the world about helping you become your true authentic sexual self. I will keep on breaking down the walls and speaking my sexy words through any platform I can find. Did you hear on December 17th Tumbler will ban all adult content? There are so many social media platforms to choose from but also many to overwhelm us. I never learned or advertised on Tumbler. What would you do if you counted on all these free speech platforms for your business? They are removing us because we talk about sex and there is always a positive and negative about sex or anything we do in our lives.
We are all here from an orgasm and we can’t even talk about it on here or out loud!!! The Fosta is a way to remove the platform for sex and human trafficking. By removing these platforms will it stop trafficking? What about the consenting adults who relied on these websites and applications? I realized conservatives don’t care about us or individuals. The only thing we can do is keep speaking our truth and to VOTE. If you love strip clubs, tantrikas, sex workers, sensual massages, sex coaches, sex educators, lingerie stores, camming, porn stars, and/or anything related to sex please learn more about Fosta and the positive side of the sex industry and why we are so important to this world.
xoxo,
Dr. Resa
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